Couples: do you share the housework and chores equally or is there an imbalance?

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Man sitting on a sofa raises his legs as another person vacuums the carpet
Do you share the load equally or is there always an imbalance? Photograph: DCPhoto/Alamy

Is it a source of conflict, or are you finding ways to resolve the issue?

Do you find yourself doing the lionโ€™s share of housework and admin tasks?

Is it something you have addressed with your partner, or are you left quietly seething every time you unload the dishwasher?

We would like to speak to couples about who does the chores and admin tasks in the home.

Do you share the mental load equally, or is there always an imbalance? Is it a constant source of conflict, or have you been able to find a way to resolve the issue? What steps have you taken to redress any imbalance? Have you ever sought professional advice from anyone about this issue?

How do you approach these matters now? Are you happy with your solutions/what could be done better?

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